The empty nest

ByBATYA L. LUDMAN
October 4, 2012 11:21

Once your offspring leave home, your identity will be redefined and your relationship with your partner and all of your children will change.




Empty Bird's Nest

Nest 521. (photo credit:Wikimedia Commons)

After 33 years of marriage we had our first “bayit reik,” as our kids would refer to an empty home. Not that we left them home alone, but rather they all seemed to have left us. We didn’t know this would happen when we invited several other couples for Shabbat dinner, but they kindly helped us deal with our otherwise very quiet house. They also politely asked about our children and sincerely appeared to miss them.

Truth be told, so did we – at least for a short while. Imagine having no children’s heads to put our hands on and bless before the meal. Shabbat lunch came around and it was just Hubby and me; How weird that was. But quiet and the chance to reconnect and even relax over a leisurely lunch are not so bad. “Sans kids” will soon become a new phase in our lives.

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