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You’re a young guy with a few hours to waste. The sun is boiling. The tummy is starting to rumble and there in the distance, as if the higher forces had heard your call, is a glistening shopping mall with a food court and female shoppers that would make any mouth water.
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But there is no entry says the guard, single men like you need to be with a female relative to enter these ramparts.
Enter an entrepreneurial young woman. “Wanna be my brother?” she propositions.
50 seconds and 50 Saudi riyals later and you are walking freely into the mall and riding up the shining escalators to the food court with your new ‘sister’.
The practice of single men paying for a temporary, fake sister or mother
as a tactic to gain entry to family-only malls in Saudi Arabia is on
Shopping malls, restaurants, amusement parks and public institutions in
Saudi Arabia are strictly segregated by gender. There are shopping malls
open only to women, shopping malls open only to men and shopping malls
open only to families (i.e. immediate relatives).
“All the malls have the same stuff,” Oda Dakhlalla, a 49-year-old
professional translator told The Media Line. “So the only reason men
would want to get into these malls is for flirting or to meet females.”
Dr. Salah bin Abdulaziz Al-Nassar, secretary-general of the National
Center for Youth Studies at King Saud University, argued that men paying
women for help getting into malls was rare.
“It’s not at all a common phenomenon,” he told The Media Line. “I’ve
heard that some of the girls are being paid to help some boys get into
the mall, but my daughter is 18 and she told me she hasn’t heard of any
But Eman Al Nafjan, a Saudi female blogger, argued the phenomenon is
growing and the reasons behind it more complex.
“It’s very common, especially in the major malls that have large food
courts,” she told The Media Line. “There are almost no malls for men,
and a lot of boys just want to shop, so it’s a mixture of boredom and
“If you go in the morning or weekdays they won’t stop you,” Al Nafjan
said. “But in the evenings and on the weekends they are very strict
about not letting in Saudi men.”
Saudi women say the going rate is 50 riyals (some $13) for a woman to
help a single man get into a mall, and the punishment if caught is
“Once they are inside, men always play all kinds of tricks,” Wajiha
Al-Huwaidar, a Saudi women’s rights advocate told The Media Line. “Like
if the religious police catch single men inside the men will just say
‘my sister is in the bathroom’. If they catch them lying they will just
kick them out of the mall.”
Al-Huwaidar argued it was immoral for women to take money for helping to
get around Saudi segregation laws.
“Women do it all the time, but doing it for money is a new thing,” she
said. “It’s not nice. Everyone should be able to go inside for free and
they are using these men. Most of these guys are jobless anyway and they
don’t have much money.”
“There are few places where young men can go to,” Al-Huwaidar continued.
“Everything is reserved for families, and if there is a place in a mall
for men it is isolated and no fun. So I do it for free when I see young
men wanting to go inside a mall to buy something and it says
But Al Nafjan argued that while the rule was problematic, it also
protects women from harassment.
“I’m against it but at the same time I understand why they have that
rule, because Saudi men are famous for harassing women,” she said. “This
complete segregation of the sexes is unnatural and makes men view women
as objects. I’ve seen 50 year old men harass women and I’ve seen 16
year old boys do it. I’ve even been harassed by men when I had three
kids with me and a baby in a stroller.”
Saudi Arabia’s strict patriarchal guardianship system requires all women
to be represented by men, either their husband, father or son, in all
public and official spheres of life. Women are not allowed to drive,
inherit, divorce or gain custody of children, and cannot enter most
public spaces without a male guardian.