A lesson in love

If one gushes goodwill at everyone, one offers it in fact to no one at all.

By AVI SHAFRAN
October 10, 2006 22:38
4 minute read.
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succot four minim 298. (photo credit: AP [File])

 
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I used to pass the fellow each morning as I walked up Broadway in lower Manhattan on my way to work. He would stand at the same spot and hold aloft, for the benefit of all passers-by, one of several poster-board and marker signs he had made. One read "I love you!" Another: "You are wonderful!" The words of the others escape me, but the sentiments were similar. He seemed fairly normal, well-groomed and decently dressed, and he smiled broadly as he offered his written expressions of ardor to all of us rushing to our offices. I never knew what had inspired his mission, but I know that something about it bothered me. Then one day I put my finger on it. It is ridiculously easy to profess true love for all the world, but it is simply not possible. If one gushes goodwill at everyone, one offers it in fact to no one at all. By definition, love must exist within boundaries, and our love for those close to us is of a different nature than our empathy for others with whom we don't share our personal lives. And what is more, only those who make the effort to love their immediate families and friends have any chance of truly caring, on any level, about all of mankind. Likewise, those with the most well-honed sense of concern for their own particular communities are the ones best suited to experience true empathy for people who do not share their own national, ethnic or religious identity. THE THOUGHT, it happens, is most appropriate for this time of Jewish year, as the festival of Succot gives way, without so much as a second's pause, to that of Shemini Atzeret. (In fact, Shemini Atzeret is often spoken of, inaccurately, as the "end" of Succot; in the Talmud's words, it is "a holiday unto itself.") While most Jewish festivals tend to focus on the Jewish people and its particular historical narrative, Succot, interestingly, also includes something of a "universalist" element. In ancient times, the seven days of the holiday saw a total of 70 bull-sacrifices offered by the Jewish priests at Jerusalem's Holy Jewish Temple, corresponding, says the Talmud, to "the 70 nations of the world." Those nations - the various families of the people on earth - are not written off by Jewish tradition. A mere four days before Succot's arrival, on Yom Kippur, Jews in synagogues around the world heard public readings of the book of Jonah, the Jewish prophet sent to preach repentance to a distant people, and who, in the end, saved them from destruction. Similarly, the services and sacrifices in the central Temple in Jerusalem, the Talmud contends, brought divine blessings down upon all the world's peoples. Had the ancient Romans known just how greatly they benefited from the merit of the Temple service, the rabbis of the Talmud remarked, instead of destroying the structure, they would have placed protective guards around it. AND YET, curiously but pointedly, Succot's recognition of the worth of all humanity is made real by the holiday that directly follows it, Shemini Atzeret. The Hebrew word atzeret can mean "refraining" or "detaining," and the Talmud (Succot, 55b) teaches that Shemini Atzeret (literally: "the eighth day [after the start of Succot], a detaining") gives expression to God's special relationship with the Jewish people. A parable is offered: A king invited his servants to a large feast that lasted a number of days. On the final day of the festivities, the king told the one most beloved to him, "Prepare a small repast for me so that I can enjoy your exclusive company." That is Shemini Atzeret, when God "detains" the people He chose to be an example to the rest of mankind, when, after the 70 sacrifices of the preceding seven days, a single bull, corresponding to the Jewish people, is brought on the altar. We Jews are often assailed for our belief that God chose us from among the nations to proclaim His existence and to call on all humankind to recognize our collective immeasurable debt to Him. And those who are irritated by that message like to characterize the special bond Jews feel for one another as hubris, even as contempt for others. The very contrary, however, is the truth. The special relationship we Jews have with each other and with God, the relationships we acknowledge in particular on Shemini Atzeret, are what provide us the ability to truly care - with our hearts, not our mere lips or poster boards - about the rest of the world. They are what allow us to hope - as we declare in the Aleinu prayer thrice daily - that, even as we reject the idolatries that have infected the human race over history, "all the peoples of the world" will one day come to join together with us and "pay homage to the glory of Your name." The writer, based in New York, is director of public affairs for Agudath Israel of America.

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