How Eliav met Maor

He followed her to Los Angeles.  Later she followed him to Jerusalem. She’s the yin to his yang.
Eliav Rodman and Maor Shaffin were both regional directors for the World Zionist Organization when they met at a staff training session in August 2010. “I thought she was cute,” says Eliav, “and I proceeded to chat her up. But she blew me off.”
Maor retorts:  “The next day, I did give him half of my banana.” Then they parted – Maor returned to Los Angeles, and Eliav remained in New York.
The following November, they were both working in New Orleans at the three-day GA (General Assembly of the Jewish Federation of North America),  They were paired off in a promotion effort and were enjoying the time together. That night they had their first date at a bar on Bourbon Street.  Maor and Eliav, who were then 29 and 28, respectively, agree: Since they were colleagues hanging out together, there was no “first date pressure.” It worked.
As soon as she landed back in LA, there was a text message from Eliav.  Their long-distance relationship was beginning.  Soon Eliav was thinking about flying out to visit her.  He consulted with his friends – they encouraged him to go.  “It’s a story for your grandchildren,” they said.  
They had four wonderful days together. “Eliav is my mirror image,” says Maor.  Maor was born to Israeli parents and grew up in the San Francisco Bay area speaking Hebrew at home. Eliav was born in Jerusalem to American parents who spoke English at home.
Eighteen months before she met Eliav, Maor had made a list of the ten must-haves in a partner.  She realized: “Eliav had every quality.  He’s friendly, loving, intelligent, cute, and a really good person.” And what does Eliav think about Maor?  “She’s perfect.”
Eliav moved to Los Angeles for the “perfect woman.” As a former intelligence officer in the Israel Defense Forces, with a BA from the Hebrew University in international relations, and several years of administrative experience, Eliav had no trouble finding a job, and started working in social media.
Eliav and Maor are both serious hikers.  On their marriage website, they describe how they got engaged on Sunday March 11, 2012: Maor chose a beautiful trail in the Pacific Palisades.  As she began unpacking the wine and cheese, Eliav knelt down in front of her and proposed.
Soon they had many decisions to make – for their wedding, honeymoon, and their future.
They decided they would make their home in Jerusalem, and Eliav would pursue an MBA at The Interdisciplinary Center, Herzliya, while Maor would look for a job. She already had the university degrees (including an MBA from Bar Ilan) and the work experience (including Hillel program director at Stanford) to meet the challenge.
Before moving to Israel, the avid travelers would splurge on their honeymoon, and planned a six-month adventure in the Far East, including, Cambodia, Vietnam, and Laos.
But, first, they had a wedding to organize.  They wanted a celebration that represented their many aspects – Israeli, American, Californian, Jewish, outdoorsy, modern, and hip. Maor had received her BA at the University of Judaism, and that would be the venue for the wedding – in Brandeis, California, with breathtaking mountain views.
Eliav’s father, Rabbi Peretz Rodman, officiated.  He said: “I picture our families passing each other somewhere over the Atlantic twice each summer in the 80’s and 90’s as you, Eliav, are brought from Israel to America, and you, Maor, are brought from America to Israel.” Truly a match made in Heaven.
Eliav and Maor were married on August 19, 2012.  Mazal tov.
Photo credit: Elliot Glassenberg