Ask the Rabbi: On being fruitful

May newlywed couples use contraceptives?

By SHLOMO BRODY
The issue of contraception in Jewish law remains very sensitive, to the extent that some historically contended that it is appropriate for scholars to exclusively address these issues orally and on an individual level, without issuing writings for public consumption (Igrot Moshe EH 1:64). Given the unhindered and untroubled use of contraceptives in broader society, as well as the nature of contemporary discourse about intimate matters, a consensus has emerged to engage in greater public discourse regarding these issues. Nonetheless, all agree that each personal circumstance must be individually addressed. As such, this column will try to present general considerations to facilitate more informed conversations.
The Bible depicts procreation as both a blessing and a commandment (Genesis 1:28, 9:1-7). Some medieval scholars count it as the first mitzva, both in order and importance, since it facilitates the settlement of the world and the ability for mitzvot to be performed (Hinuch). Procreation is further deemed as a central purpose of marriage, albeit not its exclusive goal (Tur EH 1), and one may even sell a Torah scroll to support a marriage (Megila 27a). Conversely, the Talmud declares, “He who has not engaged in procreation, it is as if he committed murder,” or alternatively, “has diminished the divine image (Yevamot 63b).
The sages debated the number of children necessary to fulfill the mitzva (Yevamot 61b), with normative law requiring a child of each gender who themselves survive with physical capabilities to procreate (EH 1:5-6). Some decisors believe that couples unable to beget children may fulfill this commandment through adoption, since the Talmud equates rearing an orphan with giving it life (Hochmat Shlomo EH 1:1).
The sages enjoined us to go beyond minimal population growth, citing Isaiah’s exhortation (45:18) to populate the world. Moreover, following Ecclesiastes’s advice (11:6), they proclaimed that one should not stop sowing his seed, given the unpredictable nature of progeny and mortality (Yevamot 62). While scholars debate the legal nature of these statements (Aruch Hashulhan EH 1:8), their theological sentiments had significant influence. Especially following the Holocaust, scholars like rabbis Aharon Lichtenstein and Ya’acov Breisch (Helkat Ya’acov EH 61) have further stressed the centrality of childbirth toward the nation’s revitalization. These considerations have, in part, motivated the Israeli health care system to generously finance fertility treatments and reproductive technologies.
As such, decisors generally agree that a couple which has not fulfilled this mitzva may not arbitrarily refrain from attempting to bear children (EH 76:6). (Such action becomes precarious for relatively older couples, when fertility rates drop and childbearing becomes more complicated.) In many situations, however, the desire to use contraceptives stems from other considerations, including medical, emotional and economic concerns, which vary in degrees of severity for each couple (another reason why every case must be examined individually).
The proposition of delaying pregnancy, in part, stems from ourunderstanding of the commandment to procreate. Unlike time-boundcommandments, such as the daily recitations of ShemaYisrael, the mitzva of procreation does not have a set hourof performance; one simply must fulfill it before he or she dies.Scholars discuss whether factors like economic loss or otherconsiderations may mitigate their immediate performance (HazonIsh YD 154:5). Rabbi Moshe Schick raised the possibility thatone should not overly delay choosing a spouse, lest one die beforehandand leave no descendents (Shu”t Maharam Schick EH1). Yet one might contend that this idea, along with general principleof trying to perform commandments at the earliest possible hour(zerizin makdimin lemitzvot), may be pushed aside inthe face of conflicting needs. A precedent for such a declaration mightalready exist in our case, as the mitzva of marriage, and consequentlythe ability to procreate, is postponed from the age of majority (untilat least the age of 18) to allow for proper education (HelkatMehokek EH 1:2).
Rabbi Elyakim Ellinson and others have cited these factors to suggestthat newlywed couples may temporarily use permissible forms of birthcontrol to more firmly establish their marriage. Rabbi Ya’acov Ariel,however, has retorted that these sources allow only for thepostponement of marriage, but not childbearing (Be’ohala ShelTorah 1:66). Rabbi Yehuda Henkin (BneiBanim 4:15) has alternatively noted that in an age where somefear the bonds of marriage and others engage in illicit premaritalfornication, it remains definitely preferable for couples to wed anduse contraceptives. Yet at least in their published works, mostdecisors, including Rabbis Moshe Feinstein (IgrotMoshe EH 4:72), Herschel Schachter (RJJ 4) and Shlomo Aviner(Assia 4), have argued that marriage entails raisinga family. As such, newlyweds must immediately try to procreate, unlessserious health reasons dictate greater caution. In our next column wewill discuss the issue of spacing between children and the variousmethods of contraception.
The writer, on-line editor of Tradition andits blog, Text & Texture (text.rcarabbis.org), teaches at YeshivatHakotel.