Grapevine: Bnei Menashe Wedding in Israel
03/21/2013 21:38
All the world loves a wedding, particularly one with fairy tale connotations.
Bnei Menashe couple Gilad Singson and his wife. Photo: Michael Freund
Napoleon has been credited with saying that an army marches on its stomach. In
Israel, there is a popular saying that the people are the army.
This may
explain why almost anywhere that anyone goes in Israel, one is plied with
food.
The same held true for journalists covering the Obama visit. Those
attending the welcome reception for US President Barack Obama at the President’s
Residence on Wednesday were asked to be there by 2:15 p.m. for security reasons.
Most journalists arrived before 1 p.m. and were shown to a large, windowpane
marquee where tables covered with cream-colored cloths had been set up. In a far
corner were boxes of airline- style meals containing schnitzel, rice, peas and
carrots and fresh salad. There was also fresh pita in plentiful supply, plus hot
and cold drinks and cookies. And then there was really nothing to do but wait,
bringing to mind John Milton’s famous line: “They also serve who only stand and
wait.”
Presumably, the powers that be at the President’s Residence
decided that the more food there is, the less painful the waiting would be.
People ate, walked around the garden, congregated in the reception hall and
tried to find some glimmer of information to add a new twist to their stories
while they waited. The first sign of excitement was approximately half an hour
before Obama’s arrival, when a police helicopter circled the area over the
presidential compound several times. Shortly afterwards, the magnolia tree which
Obama brought to Israel to plant in the president’s garden was brought in,
wrapped in burlap. Circumventing quarantine regulations, the tree-planting
ceremony went ahead as scheduled, but the tree was not planted directly into the
ground so that experts from the Ministry of Agriculture can determine whether or
not it will be damaging to Israeli plant life. They were going to remove it for
inspection, but have found a way to examine it without uprooting
it.
Although one of his two official limousines broke down in the
morning, all was well in the afternoon when Obama’s motorcade arrived at the
President’s Residence. The children who welcomed Obama waving flags and singing,
had spent most of the day rehearsing and were tired and restless. Among them was
a token Ethiopian, Emanuel Shiloni, who bore a remarkable resemblance to a young
Obama.
US Ambassador Dan Shapiro and Israel Ambassador Michael Oren did
not participate in the tete-a-tete between the presidents, but remained in the
main reception hall, where they had front row seats, along with members of
Obama’s delegation. Turning around to talk to some of them, the two ambassadors
were like Siamese twins, moving their hands in sync and standing up at the same
time and in the same way. It was quite amusing to watch. Channel 2 reporters
Rina Matzliach and Dana Weiss tried to persuade them to be interviewed while
they were waiting and, with a little more cajoling, Oren eventually gave
in.
When President Shimon Peres and Obama finally emerged from their
meeting, they mounted the stage and said very complimentary things about each
other, while not forgetting issues such as Iran, Hamas, Hezbollah, Syria,
Lebanon and the Palestinians. As the two exited the stage and moved in the
direction of the door, Peres said to Obama: “Let’s walk slowly so the press can
take photos.” A few minutes, later as Obama headed for his meeting with Prime
Minister Binyamin Netanyahu, it is doubtful that he noticed the few “Free
Pollard” posters that were left along his route from the previous evening’s mega
demonstration.
■ THE GOVERNMENT Press Office catered to pluralistic
palates at the media center which it set up at the Begin Heritage Center, within
easy walking distance of the King David Hotel, where Obama and his staff are
staying, and the Inbal Hotel, where the White House Press Corps has set up its
own media center. The sumptuous buffet at a reception held on the night before
Obama’s arrival ran the gamut from felafel to sushi to cheese cake, with a huge
variety of other delicacies and a non-stop refilling of platters. In welcoming
the visiting journalists who came not only from America but from many other
parts of the world to cover the visit, GPO director Nitzan Chen, an
eighth-generation Jerusalemite, advised them not to miss out on tasting Middle
Eastern food, which he said was the best in the world.
The GPO set up a
truly professional press center with every facility that electronic and print
media journalists could want, including rows of work spaces equipped with
laptops. It also organized tours of Jerusalem, Tel Aviv, the Gaza border and the
Castel Winery, to give journalists a feel for the varied panoply of Israeli
life.
Jerusalem Mayor Nir Barkat was on hand to welcome the foreign media
and, almost immediately after he spoke, there was a walking tour through the
Muslim, Jewish and Christian Quarters of the Old City, with focus on places of
religious significance.
The late Harry Hurwitz, who was the founder of
the Begin Heritage Center and served as its executive director until his death
in 2008, had been a newspaper editor in South Africa and had been very much
involved in public diplomacy after settling in Israel. He would have been
pleased and proud to see the BHC utilized as a media center.
■ THOUGH
JERUSALEMITES living in the vicinity of the King David Hotel, the Prime
Minister’s Residence and the President’s Residence were none too happy that
Obama had timed his visit for just a few days before Passover, which would
interfere with their holiday shopping because many roads were closed to traffic,
there is no doubt that overall, Obama was a very welcome guest, charming his way
into the hearts of the nation at every meeting and event. The ready smile, the
warm embraces and the easy interaction with children did a lot to break down
barriers.
But the bottom line is the cost factor. How much will it cost
the Israeli taxpayer? Broadcaster Oded Shachar, who hosts Politica on Channel 1,
frequently appears on Keren Neubach’s Agenda program on Israel Radio and
occasionally anchors Israel Radio’s It’s All Talk, said this week on Agenda that
despite the high rates and taxes paid by Jerusalemites, he had always been under
the impression that municipal employees didn’t know how to work because there
were so many cracked and broken pavements in the city, so many unpainted
crosswalks and so much filth. But suddenly, this past week everything brightened
up – at least on all the routes that Obama was traveling. However, both Shachar
and Israel Radio’s Jerusalem roving reporter Shai Zilber noticed neglect and
lack of cleanliness in parts of the city that Obama would not see.
In
places that he was scheduled to stop or to pass, the attention to detail was
extraordinary. At the President’s Residence for instance, where for years, the
red carpets had been in mis-matched shades, suddenly all the carpets were the
same shade of red. The roped-off barriers were replaced with brand new ones and
the opulent, all-white floral arrangements of orchids, roses, lilies, gladioli
and snapdragons in tall urns and vases must have cost a small fortune, not to
mention the re-planting of the public gardens between the president’s and the
prime minister’s official residences with a gorgeous array of brightly colored
flowers.
Jerusalem did not have sufficient metal barriers to line the
streets that were closed to traffic and had to rent hundreds more from out of
town. All of the above is just a tiny drop in the ocean of expenditure at a time
when umpteen charitable organizations were pleading for donations to ensure that
no one goes hungry during Passover.
■ ONE WOULD not expect, after a long
day in which the new Knesset speaker was voted into office and members of the
33rd government of Israel made their declarations of loyalty, that the president
and the prime minister would be playing musical chairs at 10:30 in the evening.
But that’s what happened.
All the ministers in the new government, some
of them accompanied by significant others and their offspring, had come at the
conclusion of their first meeting to the official residence of the president to
pose for the traditional photograph of the president and the prime minister
surrounded by members of the government. After both concluded their brief
remarks, the stage was cleared and two upholstered chairs were placed side by
side.
The first to leap up on the stage to stand beside Netanyahu’s chair
was Silvan Shalom, as if to prove that he was already wielding his influence.
Yair Lapid, the new finance minister, stood beside Peres’s chair but a little
ahead of other ministers in the front row, in a pose that made him look more
like a bouncer than a minister. In a gesture of courtesy, the males let all the
females stand in the front row, but none pushed herself forward. Sopha Landver,
Limor Livnat and Yael German stood in a cluster alongside Silvan Shalom, but
there was plenty of space between Landver and Shalom. Tzipi Livni stood on the
other side, between Meir Cohen and Yaakov Peri. Moshe Ya’alon, the new defense
minister, who got the best deal in the agreements, felt no need to push himself
to the foreground. He stood right at the back and Naftali Bennett stood directly
behind Netanyahu, as if to protect him from behind.
Once the photo was
taken, Peres and Netanyahu switched chairs and another photo was taken, after
which they switched places again for yet another photo.
Before they left
the President’s Residence, someone dropped off a beautifully frosted
triple-tiered cake topped by two sculpted figures – Barack Obama waving the
American flag and Shimon Peres waving the Israeli flag.
■ ALL THE world
loves a wedding, particularly one with fairy tale connotations in which the
bridal couple despite many obstacles finally tie the knot and live happily ever
after. The Bnei Menashe, who migrated to Israel from the north east of India,
and who believe themselves to be descended from one of the lost tribes of the
ancient Israelites, have had a hard time in gaining acceptance in Israel. Though
practicing a form of Biblical Judaism, they were not halachically accepted as
Jews and had to undergo Orthodox conversion. Rabbi Eliahu Avichail, who founded
the Amishav organization that was dedicated to finding the lost tribes of Israel
and bring them back to Orthodox Judaism, was among the first to believe that the
Bnei Menashe were indeed descended from exiled ancient Israelites. His work was
subsequently taken over by Michael Freund, who later left Amishav and founded
Shavei Israel which is equally dedicated to finding lost Jews and bringing them
back to the fold, with the difference that its focus is wider in its search for
lost Jewish communities, such as those descended from the exiled Jews of Spain
or those who converted from Judaism, or the hidden Jews of Poland who lost their
Jewish identities during the Holocaust and who are still in the process of
discovering their roots. Freund, who also writes a regular column in The
Jerusalem Post, this week attended the weddings of four Bnei Menashe couples who
were married in accordance with the Law of Moses and of Israel in a special
ceremony at Givat Haviva which was organized by Shavei Israel. One of the
grooms, Gilad Singson, who made aliya in 2007, had waited six years for his
fiancé Ashira to be able to immigrate. Hundreds of the 2,000-strong Bnei Menashe
community in Israel took part in the ceremony that Freund termed “incredibly
moving.”
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