Dear Mr. Sharansky,
I don’t envy the position you are in right now: tasked with
bringing a rational solution to a place both rich and fraught with passion.
Prime Minister Binyamin Netanyahu has asked you to make recommendations
concerning freedom of worship at the Kotel.
As you may know, I was
detained with my mother and eight others at the Kotel a few months ago for
wearing a tallit.
My father, a leader of the Soviet Jewry movement, was
happy to hear that the prime minister turned to you to find a solution.
am of a different generation and we have never met.
You can also be a
hero in this new era and for my generation if you become a champion for
religious freedom in the Jewish state.
I am a stakeholder in your
decision – in other words, I am a Jew. A Jew who prays with other women at the
Kotel. Prior to the issuing of your report, I’d like to respectfully make three
recommendations: 1. “Tri-chitzah” Since the Kotel belongs to all of world Jewry,
all Jews must have equal access to worship at Judaism’s most holy site. So it
only seems fair to divide it into three equal sections; men, mixed and women.
And since there is no Jewish ritual for which men get arrested then clearly
equality mandates that there should be no Jewish ritual that should land any
woman in prison.
2. Pluralistic rabbinic council The Western Wall is
under the authority of the haredi rabbinate, specifically Shmuel Rabinovitch,
who was appointed to his position in 1995, the year I was born. Why should a
holy site for all Jews be controlled for so long by a small minority? The
Western Wall shouldn’t be under the authority of the ultra-Orthodox but, like
Masada, where thousands of bnei mitzvah have been held without any problems,
should be administered by the national park service.
In order to protect
the religious concerns of all Jews, the national park service would benefit from
an advisory council of rabbis from all denominations. If it bothers the
ultra-Orthodox to see or hear women reading from the Torah they should first
stop peeking over the mechitza.
And second, they could always go in their
expansive tunnel, where women are not allowed, and from where they cannot hear
or see us.
3. Robinson’s Arch Your idea of developing Robinson’s Arch as
an additional prayer space is nice. But let’s be honest, the ultra- Orthodox
wouldn’t take that proposition if it were reversed.
Separate is not
equal. If indeed Robinson’s Arch is as spiritually and symbolically equal then
the ultra-Orthodox should have no objection to rotating between the Kotel and
Robinson’s Arch for prayer days. We have to deem inadequate proposals that
essentially mechitza-out an all-egalitarian section at Robinson’s arch away from
the central kotel plaza.
“Haredi” literally means “fear.” Fear certainly
has a place in Jewish life. Fear of God, yes. Fear of losing our distinction as
Jews, yes. But this is a fear of ourselves, of each other and, I would say, of
true sanctity. What would happen if the fists of Orthodoxy were unclenched and
norms from our people’s wider practices could blossom freely? I believe holiness
would increase. A messier, varied, colorful and fruitful holiness.
father said you were the leading dissident and Prisoner of Zion and that world
Jewry from all denominations fought for your release, for freedom of immigration
and for freedom of religion. Your place, Mr. Sharansky, is with us. We, the
Women of the Wall, are the dissidents of the Kotel. Without your support we will
continue to end up being Prisoners in Zion. Will you stand with us on Thursday
at 7 a.m?
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