More to Restobar closure than meets the eye
03/19/2013 10:14
There is an eerie symbolism about closure of Restobar coffee shop in J'lem, formerly known as Café Moment.
Survivors and relatives of victims of the suicide bombing attack on the "Moment" cafe in Jerusalem. Photo: REUTERS/Nir Elias
There is an eerie symbolism about the closure of the Restobar coffee shop in
Jerusalem, specifically at this time of the year. Restobar in its previous
incarnation was known as Café Moment. In the late evening of Saturday, March 9,
2002, a Palestinian suicide/homicide bomber who had been sent by Hamas, entered
the premises approximately 100 meters distance from the Prime Minister's
official residence and detonated an explosive device hidden under his clothing.
The force of the blast was so powerful that it destroyed a large section of the
restaurant. When the dust cleared, eleven people lay dead, and 54 were injured,
ten of them, severely.
The physical damage to the building was quickly
repaired and a memorial plaque was set into the stone fence with the names of
the eleven victims: Limor Ben-Shoham, 27, of Jerusalem, Nir Rahamim Borochov,
22, of Givat Ze'e, Danit Dagan, 25, of Tel-Aviv, Livnat Dvash, 28, of Jerusalem
Tali Eliyahu, 26, of Jerusalem, Uri Felix, 25, of Givat Ze'ev, Dan Imani, 23, of
Jerusalem, Natanel Kochavi, 31, of Kiryat Ata, Baruch Lerner-Naor, 28, of Eli
rit Ozarov, 28, of Jerusalem, and Avraham Haim Rahamim, 29, of
Jerusalem.
A garden was planted at the top of the fence facing Gaza Road
on one side and Ben Maimon on the other.
It was and still is a living
memorial to eleven innocent Israelis who wanted nothing more at the time of
their deaths than to sit with friends over coffee and good food. Café Moment was
a dairy café without rabbinic supervision. It did not advertise itself as
kosher, but there was nothing on the menu to offend religious
sensibilities.
Restobar decided to cater specifically to a secular
clientele, and its patrons of diverse age groups and backgrounds were content to
sit in the patio area or inside and to converse with each other in tones that
rarely penetrated into the street. If there was a disturbance at all, it was in
the number of vehicles that occasionally blocked the path of pedestrians in Gaza
Road or Ben Maimon.
Rehavia was never considered to be a religious
enclave, though over the years increasing numbers of religiously observant
people have moved into the neighborhood and more synagogues have been built,
though the ritual baths closed for repairs a few years ago have never been
reopened.. Most of the religiously observant residents of Rehavia are of the
live and let live variety, and if they were bothered by Restobar being open on
Shabbat, they seldom said so. On the other hand there were others who were very
vocal in their disapproval. I do not know the identity of the owner of the
building in which Restobar is located but I somehow suspect that his motive on
insisting that the enterprise be closed on Shabbat and that it becomes kosher is
not the real reason that he wants to change the status quo.
There's a
tremendous amount of construction going on in Rehavia as old buildings either
come down to be replaced by modern high rises or additional floors are added to
existing buildings. Restobar is a single story structure in a prime position.
Any real estate developer would lick his chops at the opportunity to tear down
the building and construct a huge residential tower in its place, with perhaps a
kosher restaurant on the ground floor. Restobar is not the first secular
oriented eatery to be sacrificed on the altar of religious intolerance. Café
Yehoshua, down the road apiece on Gaza, was previously a non-kosher
establishment, a factor that irked several of its neighbors. It is now
kosher.
Yes it's true that secular people can eat anywhere and it makes
no real difference whether it's kosher or not unless they have a fetish for
certain foods forbidden under Jewish dietary laws. But it's morally wrong to
deny them a place where they can congregate on weekends. These are people who
are part of society. They serve in the army; they pay taxes and they are
entitled to sit in restaurants and coffee bars on Friday nights and
Saturdays.
I do not have a personal axe to grind here, as I do observe
the Sabbath and I eat only kosher. But just as I would feel a sense of
discrimination if I was denied the right to publicly observe the Sabbath or to
eat in accordance with the dictates of my conscience, I would not want to deny
others whose lifestyle is different, the right to pursue it as they see fit, so
long as it does not harm anyone else.
After all the restaurants are
closed on Shabbat and made kosher, the next target will be the football field,
and Saturday games will cease. Who knows where it could go from
there.
Will our democracy become a theocracy? But more important than
considerations across the secular/religious divide is preserving the memories of
those people who lost their lives in a terrorist attack eleven years ago Every
new broom sweeps clean, and whether Restobar is transformed into a kosher
establishment that is closed on Shabbat or whether the building is torn down to
make way for another, the memorial plaque with the names of the victims must be
preserved, because it is yet another sign that whatever its enemies do to the
Jewish People, the spirit of survival remains strong. The plaque is also
important to the families of the victims, some of whom come on the anniversary
of the tragedy to light a memorial candle or to leave a floral tribute. Their
feelings and their pain should not be ignored.