Am I superficial?? Is it superficial to care about the way that a man LOOKS? To not even give them a chance if their looks are not 'up to snuff?' Is it?? I''m not at all sure when I turned the corner on this delicate subject matter... And started cycling backwards really... I mean, after all... The men in my past…ehhh... Not ALL of them were 'drop dead gorgeous' (THIS is an understatement!) So...what happened? Clearly I''m not a bit SHALLOW myself... This I can say with utmost assuredness... And yet...and yet.... What happened to LOVE? ''HEART'' LOVE? ''MIND'' LOVE? When did PICKY become the new COMPLACENT?