George Bush 311.
(photo credit: REUTERS)
When I heard that Israel’s Immigrant Absorption Ministry had launched an
advertising campaign in America to convince ex-Israelis living in the US that
marrying and mixing with American Jews was bad, it made me wonder because it
sounded so familiar – in a strange way.
The message of the million-dollar
campaign was to warn these Israelis that their American-born children could lose
their Israeli and Jewish identities if they were raised in the United
It was kind of an ugly message about America, but even more to
the point it wasn’t clear what precipitated the campaign at this time. Was it
because we have entered the Christmas season and many American Jews have
conflicted views about the holiday celebrations?
There’s a big “political
correctness” debate among mainstream Americans about whether people should be
“sensitive” to non-Christians. Some argue that instead of saying the
Christian-specific “Merry Christmas,” they should say the more PC and generic
“Happy Holidays.” I say them both. I even say “Happy Hanukka,” although the
Jewish holiday creates even more controversy. First, how is Hanukah really
spelled correctly, anyway? Hanukah? Hanukkah? Hanukka?
I don’t know how many
times I’ve heard American Jews – not Israelis – eager to explain to others that
Hanukka is a “minor and somewhat unimportant holiday.” American friends,
including one who immigrated to Israel, have told me they don’t celebrate
Hanukka. “It’s not like Christmas,” they say.
I got the impression that
they were right when I was in Israel one December. I didn’t see a lot of
evidence of an out-of-control “Happy Hanukka” industry suffocating shopping
centers, retail stores and everyday Israelis, or street lights draped in
I often hear the same thing said by Muslims about Ramadan. It’s
not “Happy Ramadan.” It’s “Ramadan Mubarak
.” Ramadan is a religious period when
Muslims fast during the day and eat at night – so much so that many Muslims I
know put on weight during the important religious commemoration.
CONTRAST, Christmas is more than just a religious holiday to Christians. It is a
big deal, specifically because of the non-religious commercialization of the
event. It’s a lifestyle that takes over the early winter months. You can’t walk
through an American shopping mall without encountering abundant reminders of how
Christmas has been commercialized: Santa Claus trying to sell deodorant, elves
complaining about the lack of union representation or even the right to vote on
TV commercials, or people dressing up $40,000 new cars in Christmas wrapping and
It’s hard for anyone – atheists included – to not find
themselves swept up in the commercialization of Christmas. It’s about
money, not religion. Businesses base their next year’s survival on how they “do”
in the month between Thanksgiving and Christmas. That also creates an intense
social pressure, which is why a lot of Jews in America buy Christmas trees and
decorate them with Stars of David, dreidels and images of the Maccabees and
redub them “Hanukka bushes.”
I can sympathize with how some Israelis view
the United States and its lifestyle as being a threat to their Jewish way of
life. Yet, as a Palestinian constantly showered with criticism of Israel from my
own community, hearing someone argue that American Jews are a bad influence on
Israel struck me in an uncomfortable way. After all that America has done for
Israel, wouldn’t you would think Israelis would want to marry American Jews
rather than make the argument that raising their children in America is a bad
thing. After all that America does for Israel, wouldn’t you expect Israelis to
be nicer about America’s Jewish community? Why do some Israelis think that
raising Jewish children in America is such a bad thing?
Maybe the ads were
created by a non-American Jewish Israeli who just doesn’t understand the role
American Jews have played in Israel’s creation and fundraising. The largest PAC
is not called “EIPAC” – the European-Israel Public Affairs Committee. It’s
called AIPAC for a reason.
Or maybe Israelis are just super-sensitive
about everything, more so than American Jews who live in an America inundated by
the excessive commercialization of the Christmas holidays and where
non-Christian holidays are sometimes pushed aside?
THOUGH I certainly don’t
claim to be a scholar on Judaism, I do know some things about American Jewish
life. I grew up in a “Jewish” neighborhood – Arabs and Jews actually lived in
the same neighborhoods in America until the 1967 war. My wife Alison and son
Aaron, as you know, are Jewish. My daughter from another marriage, Haifa, is
Catholic. I’m Lutheran and Orthodox, depending where I am and what company I
happen to be keeping at any given time.
I didn’t put up Christmas trees
when Carolyn was young and we don’t put up a “Hanukka bush” now, but I do know
that Americans get very upset when someone, trying to be sensitive to
non-Christians, says “Happy Holidays” instead of singing enthusiastic “Merry
Christmas” greetings and other holiday hallelujahs.
These are weighty
issues that may be too serious for even me, a Palestinian perplexed by how some
Israelis view American Jews.
So, knowing that I might upset Israelis and
American Christians, I wish Jews a Happy Hanukka, even though it’s not that
significant of a holiday, and to the rest of the non-Jews a politically correct
“Happy Holidays.” And a belated Happy Ramadan, too.