(photo credit: Reuters)
Ariel Sharon the man was vastly different than Ariel Sharon the public
persona. Indeed, never have I met anyone whose image was so different
than the way he came across in private.
I first covered Sharon in 1990,
at the height of the massive immigration from the former Soviet Union. I was a
young reporter covering immigration and absorption and he was the housing
minister and head of the aliya cabinet, a forum set up to speedily build homes
and create jobs for the tidal wave of immigrants.
He would hold meetings
of the aliya cabinet at the Prime Minister’s Office, and from time to time
stroll out afterward to answer reporters’ questions. The best I could do was
shout a question in his direction.
He cut an extremely intimidating
figure: Sharon, the rough, tough, no-holds-barred general of military
Sharon, the head of the fabled Paratroopers Unit 101; Sharon, the
hero of the Yom Kippur War; Sharon of Sabra and Shatilla; Sharon the
It was not until some 10 years later, in April 2001, shortly
after he finally became prime minister, that I had my first extended personal
encounter with him. It was the night of Remembrance Day, and Jeff Barak, The
Jerusalem Post editor in chief at the time, and I were granted an interview that
was to appear in the next day’s paper for Independence Day.
about a year after Sharon lost his wife, Lily. We thought that we were going to
have a 30-minute interview, but Sharon spoke to us for more than two hours. He
seemed genuinely lonely then, in no rush to go anywhere. It was Remembrance Day,
so he had no government business, and he had no one to rush home to. He seemed
to want our company. At that moment the man’s fragility hit me, as well as the
extent to which Sharon the man was so different from what I expected and
The fearsome general made sure his guests had something to
drink; the cunning politician made a point of saying “thank you” to his
tea-lady; the intimidating leader pleaded with his security man to take a seat.
(“They haven’t done anything bad yet,” he said of his guests to his bodyguard,
who adamantly refused to sit down. “But then again, they haven’t written
anything yet.”) Sharon was warm, funny, clever. He was downright avuncular, so
different from what I imagined.
The next interview I conducted with him,
along with my colleague Avi Hoffman, was on September 14, 2001. It was three
days after 9/11, and it took place at Sycamore Ranch, Sharon’s beloved homestead
some three kilometers from the Gaza Strip.
He sat in his living room
comfortably, resting his foot on a footstool, as a German Shepherd wandered into
the room looking for his affection.
This time too, he was not rushed, but
set aside a good amount of time for the interview.
My take-away from that
interview was the degree to which, for Sharon, the present was a seamless
continuation of the past. He was present at the state’s creation, took part in
its battle for Independence, and played a role at so many key junctures in the
state’s history since then. His decisions about the present, therefore, were
shot-through with recollections of similar circumstances in the past.
example, the War of Independence for Sharon was not history, but a wellspring of
experiences from which he continued to draw, even when sitting in the Prime
Minister’s Office. Asked why he did not address the nation more frequently,
Sharon recalled an experience in 1948 when he didn’t address troops under his
command as they had wanted.
Asked – in light of 9/11 and the attack on
the Twin Towers – about Israel’s preparedness to deal with hijacked planes
exploding into its own cities, Sharon recalled a discussion in the General Staff
in the 1970s when it appeared that a hijacked plane was intent on blowing itself
up over Israeli airspace. The decision at that time was to blow the plane up if
The setting hammered home how Sharon the man was so different
from Sharon the public personality.
Classical music played from a
stereo’s speakers when we entered the home, guinea fowl, peacocks and lambs
rambled outside. His couch was adorned with a pillow that read, in English,
“What a mensch.”
The last of the seven interviews I had with him was on
August 21, 2005, just days after the withdrawal from Gaza, even as bulldozers
were mowing down the settlements there. This was a oneon- one interview in his
The ground rules were that I could quote him, but could not write
that the quotes came during an interview – he did not want to antagonize
reporters from the Hebrew media by giving an exclusive interview at that time to
During that interview, Sharon vowed that there would be no
He also vowed to build in the settlement blocks:
“Ma’aleh Adumim will continue to grow and be connected to Jerusalem,” and “the
Ariel bloc will remain a part of Israel forever, connected territorially to
Sharon seemed drained during this interview,
Surprisingly, he had to ask aides about whether the famous letter
from George W. Bush – the letter Israel interpreted as US support for
holding on to the large settlement blocs, and something he waved as a major
accomplishment of the disengagement from Gaza – had any legal standing (it did
Sharon also referred during this interview, though not by name, to
his political rival at the time, Binyamin Netanyahu.
“You can’t frighten
these people [Israelis] with the threat of terror all the time, you can’t
continue to scare them that there will be rocket attacks on Ashdod and Kiryat
Gat,” he said. “You can’t scare this nation. We will not allow attacks and we
will respond to attacks as forcefully as possible.”
He said something
else during that interview that lingered with me afterward and now seems to go a
long way toward summing up the man and his legacy: “We had a dream. Parts of it
were realized, others were not.”