And she never learns from it. The New Testament story of the prodigal son comes to mind often as I see the choices she makes with her life. I wish I could do more to help her, to protect her, but she is nearly nineteen, at least chronologically, and so there is nothing at all I can really do. She will not listen to what anyone tells her, except the people who take advantage of her. And she never grows wiser.
All I can do is always be there for her, always love her, and always do what I can to give her whatever aid I can give her when she lets me.
I wish I could keep my own heart from breaking all the time.If you are taking care of a loved one who suffers from mental illness, let me encourage you to check out NAMI--the National Alliance on Mental Illness. They have many support programs in most communities across the United States.; joining such a support group will be very, very helpful. It has certainly benefited my wife and I a great deal.