Am I superficial?

Is it superficial to care about the way that a man LOOKS?
To not even give them a chance if their looks are not "up to snuff?"
Is it??
I''m not at all sure when I turned the corner on this delicate subject matter...
And started cycling backwards really...
I mean, after all...
The men in my past…ehhh...
Not ALL of them were "drop dead gorgeous" (THIS is an understatement!)
So...what happened?
Clearly I''m not a bit SHALLOW myself...
This I can say with utmost assuredness...
And yet...and yet....
What happened to LOVE?
''HEART'' LOVE?
''MIND'' LOVE? 
When did PICKY become the new COMPLACENT?