Here we are, yet again.....at the ever-familiar juncture of DILEMMA...I''m wondering whether..." DILEMMA" ALWAYS necessarily connotes something NEGATIVE ??for actually, this particular ''moment''...is NOT NEGATIVE whatsoever...It is, rather, PERPLEXING really....... It undulates....in its uncertain stance....It has created a life of its own.......this tribulation trial....And so... we PLOD forward...in shoes made of clay and mortar and lace....sprinkled HEAVILY with SPLENDA...... I mean...We still gotta look good, right ??.