US programs help meet needs of Jewish girls

This may have been the first time the Purim tale of Queen Esther was likened to the popular TV series 'America's Next Top Model.'

its a girl thing 298.88 (photo credit: Courtesy)
its a girl thing 298.88
(photo credit: Courtesy)
It's not unusual for participants in Rosh Hodesh: It's a Girl Thing!, a nationwide enrichment program for teenage Jewish girls, to jump from Judaic teachings to modern-day society. Even so, this may have been the first time the Purim tale of Queen Esther was likened to the popular TV series America's Next Top Model. "It's exactly the same," Natalie Oppenheimer, 11, explained to her peers one recent Sunday afternoon, sitting cross-legged on her basement floor in suburban Philadelphia. "Half of what people see is always what you look like. It's just reality." As a chorus of "uh-huhs" rose from the crowd, the conversation, which took place over pizza and a few cases of soda, drifted from Miss America to Ahasuerus, megila readings to Elle Magazine and body image to perceptions of women in the ancient world. The Rosh Hodesh group was founded by Kolot, the Center for Jewish Women's and Gender Studies at the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College, and spun off to the independent feminist organization Moving Traditions. Rosh Hodesh is just one of several programs working to empower young Jewish women today. Other initiatives tackle domestic violence, eating disorders, physical inactivity, selfesteem and general health, among other things. The Hadassah Foundation, established in 1998 as a funding arm of the Women's Zionist Organization, has become a major source of income for such initiatives. Love Shouldn't Hurt is a dating violence prevention program in the San Francisco area that targets Jewish teens. Run by Shalom Bayit, a parent outreach center, the program's youth-led workshops draw on Jewish values and perspective. The Washington-based Jewish Women International offers an informational toolkit called When Push Comes to Shove... It's No Longer Love. The package includes a short film documenting Jewish experiences with relationship abuse, as well as a discussion guide to the issue utilizing Jewish texts. Other, more secular programs have been adapted to serve a Jewish audience as well. Experts say the need for such material and programming is critical. According to Kathryn Wheeler, who serves as executive director of the Girls' Coalition of Greater Boston, only 6 percent of philanthropic dollars are allotted to programming specifically geared toward girls. Wheeler, whose umbrella organization coordinates networking, education and advocacy for girls in the Boston area, said coed programming is more likely to pay attention to boys. "Girls are underserved in current programs," she said, speaking at a March 5 Hadassah Foundation luncheon called "Growing Great Girls," which brought together activists for a roundtable discussion on the feminist agenda. "We still have not achieved equity." For Jewish girls, the situation may be even graver. Steiner-Adair argued that Jewish girls are more vulnerable than others to eating disorders due to the high stress levels and expectations for achievement placed on them. For example, at the Renfrew Center, an eating disorder clinic in Philadelphia, 13 percent of the beds go to Jewish patients, Steiner-Adair said, far more than the percentage of the local population that is Jewish. Hadassah Foundation director Linda Altshuler said the foundation undertook its grant campaign after a strategic planning review found "a lot of unmet needs both in Israel and the United States." "Many girls in the American Jewish community are fortunate to come from a comfortable financial background," she said. "That doesn't mean all their emotional and psychological needs are being met."