As we face Tisha Be’av and mourn the loss of the Temple, let us take a moment to remember that we are grieving a destruction that took place in our past and still continues in the present day.
By ZVI GLUCK
Inside each and every one of us lies a beating heart. In its natural state, our hearts are jubilant and dancing, sharing that message of hope and joie de vivre with those whose lives are touched by pain and sorrow.Throughout the year, our calendar is filled with celebrations, moments where happiness is an integral part of the equation. Our hearts sing on the three festivals, they rejoice on Hanukkah and Purim, and while we all eagerly await the coming of the Messiah, when Tisha Be’av will be redefined, in our current state it is a day that is the antithesis of happiness.When our hearts are devoid of joy, the dancing turns into mourning. Our essence has been transformed as we grieve the loss of our Holy Temple, the true heart of the Jewish nation. To truly understand what it means to have suffered the devastation of our collective heart, we need to take a moment to understand the incredible beauty of the Temple. More than just a magnificent edifice, it stood upright and proud, built upon eternal foundations and everlasting pillars. It was majestic, glorious, sacred and unifying, overflowing with holiness and light. Heaven permeated its walls and its air was filled with pure happiness.And then came the day when the joy was gone. Defiled beyond imagination, its stones shattered, our heart stopped beating and we were plunged into grief so palpable and all-consuming that we nearly gave up hope. Surrounded by the ashes of the holiest place on the face of the earth and facing a loss whose magnitude seemed too much to bear, we had no idea how we could ever go on.As we say on Hanukkah and on Purim, bayamim hahem, bazman hazeh (“in those days, at this time”); we acknowledge that events that occurred generations ago still continue to this very day. Just as the Divine Presence dwelled in the Temple, it lives on in our souls, transforming each one of us into a miniature Temple.For centuries, Jews all over the world have mourned the destruction of the Temple, built of gold and stone. Yesterday, as we once again sat on the floor and relived those ancient moments with fresh tears welling up in our eyes, we needed to also mourn the loss of the flesh-and-blood “temples” in our own communities – those who have been shattered, abused and devastated by predators. Every time an innocent life is ravaged by abuse or addiction and the joy in their hearts is silenced, we experience the destruction of yet another Temple.Yesterday we mourned the destruction that took place 2,000 years ago, and we mourn the destruction that goes on in our communities with alarming frequency.AdvertisementImagine for a moment that you are standing on a hilltop overlooking the Temple Mount. You see black smoke pouring out of the Temple. You see enemy troops mercilessly hammering against its walls, looting its treasures and defiling the Holy of Holies. Would you close your eyes as it is crushed, again and again? Could you just stand by silently and watch as the unthinkable occurred?While we cannot turn back the hands of time and prevent the destruction of the Temple, we have the power in our own hands to stop the modern day destruction, a lesson that our founder and chairman the late Mendy Klein understood all too well. He knew that this destruction is a tragedy, but that tragedy is far greater if we have the ability do something about it but choose not to.Mendy had the biggest heart of anyone I have ever been privileged to know. The most important lesson he taught me was what it means to give with heart to those who are suffering and to their broken friends and family, a heartfelt act whose effects live on forever. In his lifetime and beyond, Mendy continues to teach me that with heart comes hope, and with hope comes healing.So each year, as we face another Tisha Be’av and mourn the loss of the Temple whose majestic pillars beckoned and whose very existence was an integral part of the heart every Jew, let us take a moment to remember that we are grieving a destruction that took place in our past and still continues in the present day. The eternal pillars of Amudim, constructed from the very depths of Mendy’s heart, continue to call to the Jewish People, urging each of us to give with our hearts, from our hearts, so that we can erase the torment from the lives of our brothers and sisters and instill in their hearts the hope for a future filled with absolute joy.The writer is the director of Amudim, an organization dedicated to helping abuse victims and those suffering with addiction within the Jewish community, and has been heavily involved in crisis intervention and management for the past 18 years. For more information: www.amudim.org.