What happens when we count on relatives to put in a good word but invocations go unanswered?
A MAN prays at the gravesite of the late Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, as followers and admirers of Schneerson gather at his mausoleum in preparation for the 13th anniversary of his death at the Old Montefiore Cemetery in New York, on June 14, 2007.(photo credit: SHANNON STAPLETON / REUTERS)ByLISA J. WISE