“In today’s interconnected world, where the images, videos and stories are broadcast around the world in seconds, the emotional traumas of such tragedies are similarly being shared globally,” explains Rabbi Simcha Scholar, CEO of Chai Lifeline, an international children's health support network.
“This is a far-reaching event which affects all of us in many different ways because of how and where it happened, who was there during such a traumatic event, and the global connection between the Jewish people,” added Scholar.
In the hours following the tragedy, Israel was still sleeping and remained mostly unaware of the disaster until the morning.
Meanwhile, Project Chai, Chai Lifeline’s Crisis Intervention, Trauma and Bereavement Department, published and distributed protocols to help people with the onslaught of emotions that would ensue.
“We want people to understand that there is no right or wrong reaction to the tragedy but they need to be prepared for what they and their children will be experiencing,” said Project Chai director Rabbi Dr. David Fox.
“Parents, teachers and community leaders are going to be turned into ‘mental health first responders’ for their children, students and community, and have to better understand the need to properly deal with the issues of tragedy and trauma," he said. "There are specific tools that can help all of us cope.”
Included among the victims was 19-year-old Donny Morris from Bergenfield, New Jersey, who had been studying in Israel for the year – and had himself been a volunteer in a Chai Lifeline afterschool program called i-Shine that works with children confronting illness or tragedy.
“There is no doubt that when we put a real face to the tragedy, a face that could have been our own son or brother, classmate or friend, it takes on a whole additional dimension of connection and pain,” Scholar said.
“Our experience teaches us that even as this tragedy begins to fade away from public consciousness, the subjective impact and psychological and spiritual scars can persist,” Fox said. “Our pledge is to be there whenever that need arises.”