Since October 7, 2023, the long-running military conflict between Israel and Hamas has intensified to an unprecedented degree. At the core of this escalation are mass atrocities never seen before in this part of the world. Hundreds of Israeli civilians were mutilated, raped, and butchered by Hamas militants on October 7. Thousands of Palestinian civilians have been and continue to be killed and wounded in Israel’s military operation. The Israeli education, health, and mental health systems have suffered immensely, while in Gaza basic infrastructure and economic activity are all but decimated. My recently published book, Forgiveness and Resentment in the Aftermath of Mass Atrocity: Jewish Voices in Literature and Film, studies the responses of witnesses and survivors to the worst acts human beings can inflict on each other. With deep pain I am writing these lines, as mass atrocity has come to my very doorstep. 

However, sooner or later, the violence will subside, ceasefire talks will take place, and both Israelis and Palestinians will have to begin the process of healing from the atrocities they have perpetrated on each other. Forgiveness and resentment, I believe, could enable the two nations to emerge from the trauma and destruction of the current war. The ability to extend forgiveness and articulate resentment depends on recognizing the humanity of the offender, the other person, the neighbor. Giving recognition to the humanity of the other side is key to accepting the basic demand shared by both sides: self-determination in an independent and secure state; in other words, a two-state solution.

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